Agonizing over decisions is a common concern of my friends and
clients alike. We all hear those interior voices questioning, “Could I?”
“When should I?” “How do I?” “What if?” “But if I do…”
The reservations are endless.
Some of us labor when faced with a choice; others make snap decisions
without careful consideration. But making good decisions confidently
doesn’t need to be problematic, and it doesn’t need create anguish and
angst in your life.
You CAN make decisions while still weighing options without getting
overwhelmed and stuck. My 8 tips for making decisions will help get rid
of those indecision hurdles and on your way to making good decisions
faster than ever.
Mentally Flip Through Possibilities
Consider the possibilities, run through them in your mind as you
make decisions. The one that feels right to you will pop out. Trust
that instinct.
Know where you are going
If
you don't know the end game, you can't properly plan. Making decisions
is about getting to a destination, so know with certainty what that is.
Many hands make light work
Ask
for advice from friends and family that you trust. This doesn't mean
you need to follow their advice, but you never know what insight other
sources might bring to your decision making.
Trust yourself
That's
not a self-help affirmation; it's a recognition that you can go down a
lot of rabbit holes. Deal with that reality by knowing that your
knowledge base is going to propel you forward in the right direction.
Make decisions while calm
STAY
CALM AND MAKE DECISIONS. Heh. But seriously, don't make big decisions
if you're in a stressed out state; you'll tend to either make choices
that are too safe or too risky. I want you to make choices that are just
right.
Maybe your path is a trail
Be a trailblazer! When you make decisions, don't waste a brainwave thinking you need to follow the pack. YOU lead the back!
Be like Spock
Your emotions serve you well. Usually.
But not when you need to make important decisions. During these times,
you really need to uncouple your emotional responses from your
decision-making process.
Seek authority
Sometimes
what you need is neutral advice from experts in your industry. If you
don't have a mentor in your field, consider hiring a consulting firm or
seek out another.
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