I came across this beautiful inspiring story. I would like to share with u all...My
mother used to ask me what the most important part of the body is.
Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct
answer. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as
humans, so I said, “My ears, Mommy.”She said, “No. Many people are
deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again
soon.”Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my
first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer. So this time I
told her, “Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so it must be
our eyes.”She looked at me and told me, “You are learning fast, but the
answer is not correct because there are many people who are
blind.”Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the
years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was,
“No. But you are getting smarter every year, my child.”Then one year, my
grandfather died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my
father cried. I remember that especially because it was only the second
time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our
final good-bye to my Grandfather. She asked me, “Do you know the most
important body part yet, my dear?” I was shocked when she asked me this
now. I always thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the
confusion on my face and told me, “This question is very important. It
shows that you have really lived in your life. For every body part you
gave me in the past, I have told you were wrong and I have given you an
example why. But today is the day you need to learn this important
lesson.”She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well
up with tears. She said, “My dear, the most important body
part is your shoulder.”I asked, “Is it because it holds up my head?”She
replied, “No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved
one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in
life, my dear. I only hope that you have enough love and friends that
you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it.”Then
and there I knew the most important body part is not a selfish one. It
is made for others and not for yourself. It is sympathetic to the pain
of others. People will forget what you said. People will forget what you
did . But people will NEVER forget how you made them feel. Good friends
are like stars…You don’t always see them, but you always know they are
there.
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